When Kourtney told her family she ‘hated’ Scott, on the July 9 episode of ‘KUWTK,’ HollywoodLife.com asked top relationship experts and psychiatrists if they thought that was okay — read on to find out what they said!
Kourtney Kardashian needs to adhere to the saying: Don’t say it unless you mean it! HollywoodLife.com was shocked to see just how unhappy Kourtney is in her relationship with Scott Disick but couldn’t believe that she said she “hated” him!
“I think Kourtney needs to find a more constructive way to let her anger and resentment be known,” says Dr. Jeff Gardere, psychologist and Chief contributor to Healthguru.com. “Because it’s legitimate and totally understandable but there’s a way it could come back to the ears of their children one day. Mason and Penelope may hear those words years later and will hurt the child psychologically. When you say those kind of things they hang around in the ear and should find a more constructive way for your anger.”
Diana Falzone, a top relationship expert tells HollywoodLife.com that Scott needs to stop acting like a partying teen and that Kourtney should probably have never stayed with Scott and had a second child.
“Scott promised to man up yet unfortunately he has not changed that much,” Diana tells us. “He still loves to party and he puts his love of the nightlife before his family. Kourtney has tried to make it work with Scott for the sake of her Mason, now she is in a horrible position.”
Dr. Carole Lieberman, M.D., psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets believe that Kourtney thought that by having another child with Scott, that it would make him mature.
“Kourtney hoped that having a baby with Scott would push him towards the altar, but so far Scott, who has cheated on her before, hasn’t altered his skirt chasing ways,” she says. “Even after baby number two, Kourtney does ‘hate’ Scott because he hasn’t wanted to marry her yet. She’s angry that, despite having two children with him, she still cannot catch him in her trap.It’s sad that these babies are being ‘used’ to trap their dad, which may never happen.
Relationship expert Cooper Lawrence and host of The Loose Talk podcast, believes that Scott just doesn’t want people to think of him as a dad, so he’s still out partying.
“It makes him seem immature in Kourtney’s eyes and in ours almost like he’s still a single guy, out having fun,” she says. “He’s not perceived as a dad if he’s out partying.
But the stars of Bravo’s Love Brokers, Jennifer Zucher and Lori Zaslow (which premieres July 24 at 10pm think that Kourtney was just being hormonal since she was pregnant while saying those things to her family.
“We are both mom’s and know what it is like to be hormonal and pregnant,” Jenn and Lori tell us. “But Scott should go out of his way to be there for her. Of course her hormones were raging but she does truly love him otherwise they wouldn’t be together anymore. Neither one is perfect and both have their own baggage!”
— Chloe Melas