A controversial Facebook page devoted to the practice of unprotected sex between consenting male partners (known as “barebacking”) has sparked a dialogue in the gay community, after the social network’s moderators shut down the page Tuesday.
LGBT-focused news site Queerty first posted about the “Bareback” page on Tuesday.At the time, the page had more than 20,000 Likes. The social network’s counters also indicated at that time that more than 5,500 people were talking about the page.
Queerty’s Dan Avery noted that some members of the site appeared to be using it as a way to find and hook up with other men looking to have unprotected sex. The discovery prompted Avery to wonder whether the page should be allowed on Facebook.
A few hours later, the page was gone.
When reached for comment, Facebook told The Huffington Post it could confirm only that the page had, in fact, been taken down.
Facebook’s Community Standards prohibit nudity, underage pornographic content and promotion of self-harm, among other restrictions; but none of those apply directly to the Bareback page.
The Queerty article, meanwhile, has kicked off an intense debate in its comments section, making it one of the most discussed articles on the site.
On the one hand were posters like CaptainFabulous, who wrote that barebacking is a personal preference that has become far less risky than it once was:
HIV isn’t a death sentence and hasn’t been in a long time. We don’t need protecting. We need to stop judging each other and accept that although we’re all gay (or some shade of gay) that we’re entitled to do whatever the hell we want, no matter how risky or unsafe, without some snot nose uppity bitch telling someone they’re living their life the wrong way.
Others, like HalcyonDays, disagreed:
At minimum this kind of irresponsible behavior has financial consequences. The wave of health care costs connected to this behavior will impact all of us in the years to come. Barebacking is not really an entirely individual choice when the impact of the choice goes beyond the individual.I think as a subculture we have eroticized and fetishized BB. Like many, I find that porn fantasy version erotic, the reality not so much.
In 2011, The San Francisco Chronicle wrote that, increasingly, a younger generation of gay men had come to see barebacking in a new light:
Barebacking and unprotected sex are not the same, according to experts who see barebacking as a separate “phenomenon” of the late 1990s. More men began consciously rejecting condoms, while simultaneously, medical breakthroughs were allowing people with HIV to live longer without getting AIDS…Hence, one definition of barebacking: intentional, unprotected anal sex, while accepting or seeking the risks.
The term is also used to describe not just a behavior, but a “subculture,” as it was in Tim Dean’s 2009 book, “Unlimited Intimacy: Reflections on the Subculture of Barebacking.”
As indicated by the public nature of the Facebook page, however, barebacking is becoming more and more a part of the mainstream.
Last month, a survey of gay and bisexual men by New York’s Community Healthcare Network (CHN) found that almost 47 percent of men who use apps to find partners admitted to barebacking “always, often or sometimes.”
In the report, Dr. Freddy Molano, Assistant Vice President of HIV Programs and Services at CHN, said that the survey showed AIDS education has increased, but that “among certain populations, HIV/AIDS is on the rise, and that’s alarming.”
